Thursday, August 1, 2013

Casting Away Garments (Clothed in Affliction)

Well, guest blogger month is here! Our lead off hitter is not only one of the most godly men I know, but my very best friend in the world- Pastor Daniel Jackson of Divine Cathedral of Faith in Tampa, FL. PD has been a major influence in my life since day one and is truly one of the vessels God used to help form me into the man I am today. To learn more about the ministry of DCOF, visit http://www.divinecathedral.org/.


"Then they came to Jericho. As Jesus and his disciples, together with a large crowd, were leaving the city, a blind man, Bartimaeus (which means “son of Timaeus”), was sitting by the roadside begging. When he heard that it was Jesus of Nazareth, he began to shout, “Jesus, Son of David, have mercy on me!” 
 Many rebuked him and told him to be quiet, but he shouted all the more, “Son of David, have mercy on me!”
Jesus stopped and said, “Call him.”
So they called to the blind man, “Cheer up! On your feet! He’s calling you.” 50 Throwing his cloak aside, he jumped to his feet and came to Jesus.
“What do you want me to do for you?” Jesus asked him.
The blind man said, “Rabbi, I want to see.”
“Go,” said Jesus, “your faith has healed you.” Immediately he received his sight and followed Jesus along the road." -Mark 10:46-52 (NIV)


Because of life’s ups & down’s we can sometimes develop a bad habit of putting on cloaks that cover and disguise our true purpose and our true identity. Some of us have been in disguise for so long that we are starting to forget who we really are. Instead of allowing situations that arise in our life to cause us to put on the garment of praise (Isaiah 61:3), we have put on garments to conceal our true identity.

Through life’s journey we have suffered many things and the hurt and sometimes even embarrassment that came upon us as a result of those things, has caused us to put on layers of garments.

Now I have to be honest with you today, this Christian journey is no picnic. You have to be kind to folks who don’t like you, forgive those who intentionally hurt you and even pray for those who desire to see you fail. However, I promise you that in the end, if you hold on, it will be a walk to remember!

I want to talk about the blind man named Bartimaeus who suffered with an affliction. If you noticed I stated that he was a blind man who suffered with an affliction. Most people would think that his blindness was his affliction, but I’m here today to tell you that his blindness was just a condition that gave God the opportunity to show off His glory!

The affliction came upon him during his process of trying to be accepted by man. I’m sure that some hurt person, who was dealing with insecurity issues themselves, came along and told Bartimaeus that he was not normal. They probably picked on Bartimaeus just to take the attention off of the fact that they hadn’t really accomplished anything themselves.

And they said in awe, look at the blind man, he must have done something wrong to deserve this punishment. I’m sure that they would even go and play evil jokes on him and as a result, year after year Bartimaeus added a new garment of shame and a new garment of depression. These new garments are what his afflictions were made of. He was no longer just a man that had a condition of being blind; his garments made it comfortable for him to now sit on the side of the road and be labeled a beggar.

There are two things that Bartimaeus needed to do in order to receive his complete healing for his condition and deliverance from his afflictions. He had to cry out and say Jesus, thou son of David, have mercy on me. No matter who charged him to hold his peace, he still cried out Jesus, “Have mercy on me”. The second thing that Bartimaeus had to do was to cast away his garment and get up from his condition that his affliction caused him to be in.

Take off that garment of depression, take off that garment of shame, take off that garment of hopelessness and watch God make you whole again, if you only believe that He can.


Thursday, July 25, 2013

Daddy Gap Preview

Here is the latest from Crosswalk.com. It is an excerpt from the book "The Daddy Gap", which I am co-authoring with Dawn Walker of Single Parent Missions. The book is scheduled for release this fall.

http://www.crosswalk.com/family/parenting/single-parents/vulnerable-single-parent-families-need-the-church-s-protection.html?ps=0

Thursday, July 18, 2013

Single Parenting and the Workplace

Here is my latest from Crosswalk.com that speaks to both employed single parents AND Christian bosses who may have single parents working for them:

http://www.crosswalk.com/family/parenting/single-parents/single-parenting-and-the-workplace.html

Saturday, July 13, 2013

Facebook and Fathering


Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord. –Col 3:20 (NIV)
Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. –Eph 6:4 (NASB)

I was recently posed with the question as to whether or not it was right for us to allow our children to have a social media account, such as Facebook. While there are multiple cases I could make for each side, as always, we need to turn to the Lord for answers.
I have read several articles (such as this one: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/01/22/facebook-study-envy_n_2526549.html) on the correlation between people being on Facebook and experiencing feelings of depression or less self-worth afterwards. In short, we compare ourselves and our lives to what we see online and act out accordingly.
As fathers, one of our number one responsibilities is to instill a strong self-worth and confidence in our children, and to point out the lies and flaws with anything that may inhibit those qualities in them. This is accomplished through our knowledge and passing on of Scripture to our kids and spending quality time with them so they don’t go looking to fill that gap somewhere else. We are also to set firm and realistic boundaries for their protection. If you love and discipline your kids in the same way God does us, then you will have their respect when it comes to topics such as social media usage. If you do not, then you still have the right to petition the Lord on their behalf.
I am not going to make a judgment call for your household. We all understand the risks and dangers that lurk in cyber-world; but I believe an even greater danger is our sons and daughters not having a father who is active in bringing them up in Christ. Seek His guidance today through the Word and prayer and ask Him to lead you when it comes to leading them.

Monday, July 8, 2013

A Life With or Without Christ


But each one is tempted when he is drawn away by his own desires and enticed. Then, when desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, brings forth death. –James 1:14-15 (NKJV)

A guy I have known for multiple years passed away this week- the result of suicide. At one point I was very good friends with him, his ex-wife, and their now 16 and 20 year old girls. Although it’s been a while since he and I have spoken, my mind has been wandering as to what brought about this tragedy and why he saw no way out. Here’s some insight:
I knew this man and his ex while they were still married and the girls were young. I watched as the marriage unfolded- a good portion of it to his drinking, violence, and adultery. I am wondering, as the verse above states, if he had become so entangled in sin that it led to his final decision. I recently learned at the visitation that he had made a decision for Christ and was baptized, but sin knows no boundaries and has no mercy. Jesus tells us in John 10:10 that our enemy’s number one goal is to steal, kill, and destroy. “Sin…brings forth death.” (James 1:15)

I am also troubled with another thought: If I had perhaps shared the Gospel with him in years prior, could all of this been avoided? Of course I don’t blame myself for what happened, but as I read Jesus’ parable of the rich man and Lazarus (Luke 16:19-31) today, I was given a very clear picture of just how vital it is for every breathing human being to hear the Good News of Jesus Christ and that it is too late once we leave this world for the next.

With that being said, I encourage all of us to examine ourselves and ask the Lord to bring to the surface anything that is hindering us from witnessing to others (Psalm 26:2). I will continue to pray for this man’s family and their healing, but also for God to keep this fresh in my mind too so I don’t miss another opportunity to save a life- for eternity.

It is for freedom that Christ set us free… -Gal 5:1 (NASB)

Thursday, June 27, 2013

Recent Articles From AFW

For some efficiency, here are the links to a couple recent articles from AFW. The first deals with Parental Alienation. The latter is a Father's Day post from a local radio station. Enjoy:

http://www.crosswalk.com/family/parenting/single-parents/the-long-haul.html?ps=0

http://www.woodradio.com/articles/wood-news-125494/a-fathers-walk-provides-faith-based-11395244/

Wednesday, June 26, 2013

Upcoming News for Our Fatherly Advice

Hey everyone,

Couple quick things:

1. I am looking to reach out a bit more with our posts and will be sending out "Single Dad (or parent) Tips" regularly via blog post and Facebook. I am looking for some responses at to what you all would like to see in regards to tips, ideas, and things down that line. Leave a comment here on the blog or email me at: matt@afatherswalk.org.

2. August is Guest Blogger Month again! We have a couple returning guests from last year and some new faces too. Stay tuned for some great posts from some godly men and women!